fix(download): make "check now" actually check now, and say what it did

The button ran a normal reconcile pass, which honours each request's
retry backoff — so a request searched an hour ago was not due, nothing
was searched, and the button looked broken. The backoff is a promise to
the providers, not to the user: a person pressing "check now" *is* the
schedule, so a user-initiated pass ignores it and the loop still does
not.

"Nothing happened" also needed a reason. Summary now carries how many
requests are still being looked for and whether any download client is
enabled at all, which is the one cause of silence the user can fix —
and the requests tab says so above the list rather than leaving an
inert list to be interpreted.

The rest is the retry schedule finally being admitted to: rows show
when the next check falls due, "Looking for" explains that a request
sitting there is waiting rather than failing, and the page header says
how often the list is worked.

backend/database/sql/sqlcgen/download.sql.go

@@ -739,6 +739,58 @@ func (q *Queries) ListLiveDownloads(ctx context.Context) ([]DownloadDownload, er
 	return items, nil
 }
 
+const listWantedDownloadRequests = `-- name: ListWantedDownloadRequests :many
+SELECT id, mbid, entity, library_id, artist, title, scope, secondary, state, parent_id, attempts, last_error, last_tried_at, next_try_at, external_ids, created_at, updated_at FROM download_requests
+WHERE state = 'wanted'
+  AND entity <> 'artist'
+ORDER BY attempts, created_at
+LIMIT ?
+`
+
+// The same set ignoring the backoff, for a pass the user asked for by
+// hand: "check now" that respected a six-hour retry schedule looked
+// like a button that did nothing.
+func (q *Queries) ListWantedDownloadRequests(ctx context.Context, limit int64) ([]DownloadRequest, error) {
+	rows, err := q.db.QueryContext(ctx, listWantedDownloadRequests, limit)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+	defer rows.Close()
+	var items []DownloadRequest
+	for rows.Next() {
+		var i DownloadRequest
+		if err := rows.Scan(
+			&i.ID,
+			&i.Mbid,
+			&i.Entity,
+			&i.LibraryID,
+			&i.Artist,
+			&i.Title,
+			&i.Scope,
+			&i.Secondary,
+			&i.State,
+			&i.ParentID,
+			&i.Attempts,
+			&i.LastError,
+			&i.LastTriedAt,
+			&i.NextTryAt,
+			&i.ExternalIds,
+			&i.CreatedAt,
+			&i.UpdatedAt,
+		); err != nil {
+			return nil, err
+		}
+		items = append(items, i)
+	}
+	if err := rows.Close(); err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+	if err := rows.Err(); err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+	return items, nil
+}
+
 const recordDownloadRequestAttempt = `-- name: RecordDownloadRequestAttempt :exec
 UPDATE download_requests
 SET attempts      = attempts + 1,